Me and my partner have been TTC for 1 yr and 6mo. I’m getting really frightened about infertility. I never thought TTC would ever be this hard. I have pretty regular cycles (31-32 day cycle) and i know i’m capable of ovulating as i used OPK’s for 2 cycles. But it was an expensive habit and my partner recommended we gave it a break for a few months. We didn’t think about TTC 6 months at ALL. But still nothing. I always said to my partner i’ll give it till 2 years. But as the months go by i lose hope all together and just think “well this is life”
On a personal note: I had an old boyfriend in my younger teen years. And we were both sexually active and i caught chlamydia off of him. I think i had it for about 6weeks before i went to get checked out. I think this has also caused problems for me. But my sister caught it as well and had it longer than me, as she was with her old partner for a long time. But she conceived a child no problem.
I’m scared about seeking medical help as i’m only 20. I’m worried the Dr will turn around and say “too young, come back in 3 years” or something like that. But me and my partner have been together for 5 years. And we both want a child. They say the younger you are, the most fertile you are. So that’s what really annoys me!

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i was with this guy a while back and we ended because he claimed it ‘wasn’t working’ when in my mind i thought it was going really well and i was really falling for him.. a few days after the break up i received a drunk phone call from him and he told me he finished with me because he doesn’t do feelings and he was falling for me and he didn’t like not having control over how he felt about me. He said i was different to all his previous girlfriends and he didn’t want to hurt me because he couldn’t change who he was to be with me or something.. anyway, i noticed some weird discharge on my pants and went to the doctors and turns out he gave me chlamydia.. ive asked him about it but he wont admit it was him but seeing ive only slept with him and a virgin it was defiantly him. Now he’s saying he wants to re try things because he ‘loves’ me. i have feelings for him and im still gutted from him finishing things. What do i do, he has a reputation with girls but he says he wants to change :-/ ?

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My wife and I have been married for 28 years and after 10 years of getting established with our careers, buying houses,traveling and having fun we settled down and had 2 boys who are now teenagers.In a way we had the ideal middle class life and security and the birth of our 2 boys bonded us even stronger. I loved that girl to death.
I must backtrack and explain my actions to be fair to her and not present a one sided story. Through out our marriage at times she claims my personality is abrasive and maybe I was sort of sharp tougued at times and we had our fights like everybody. We had already been married longer than most our friends and found ways to make up support each other and go on.Our sex life was satisfying and strong and became better as we grew together. At the 7 year point I had 3 different minor slips that I still regret to this day.They all 3 were just brief sexual encounters with no love or bonding as a matter of fact 2 wre just oral sex. But one was intercourse and I got Chlamydia and of course my wife later came down with PID and I confessed to 2 of the encounters and we both got treatment and thank God she found it in her heart to forgive me and we went on.After that I quit going out without her and domesticated. We decided then to have kids.
After the boys were born we had to move away from family and friends two states away to hold on to her job with a large corparation that pays well and had all the benefits so important to a young family. I ran my own business with her brother and Dad which was successful but we had to go with me the trailing spouse and two babies.
Fast forward to the 16 years married point and 3 years into our life in the new location where I found employment in manufacturing and she continued her life long career with a large corparation. She got a promotion and went to work at a new location that was 50% men.In the past the clerk type positions she had were mostly women.
By the way I should mention my wife is blond, beautiful blue eyes, sexy walk and 5′7″ with very attractive figure. Still all these years I have never had to worry about her and trusted her.
Now I didn’t find out until 5 years later but she had a full blown affair with a married man there at work with the going off together at lunch and occasional oral sex or heavy petting. She says intercourse only one time at a motel. But the fact is that this relationship went on for 3 and 1/2 years with hundreds of times they were alone together. She talked about her friend at work and I even met him 2 or 3 times at the golf course. Her affair with him became sexually driven towards the end and she started the process of trying to break off the connection but like all on the job affairs its hard to escape somebody who is in the same group of buidings in tis huge company. During the period of weening and ignoring him he became frustrated and anger was obvious to other emplyoyees in nearby departments. Enter affair #2 guy. The attractive married man that was training my wife off on on tried consoling her and providing I guess friendship to help her dump this guy. Back at home all I know is I had always wondered if she was going further than friends with #1 guy and asked her all the time “Did you go to lunch with him today?” You sure this is just friends. I’ll be honest with you a man (or woman) has gut feelings and sorta can tell when somethings up and many off the flags were there.
About 10 months later the poop hit the fan when I got tired of all the suspicion and being told I was a paranoid jerk and I started focusing on her work world. One night when looking for something in her purse I found a user name and password to a greeting card site. When I got in there and started opening all the cards she had written I was fflabbergasted. My heart was beating out of my chest as she lay in the bedroom asleep I printed out copies of all these cards and stashed them away to lay low until I could sort this thing out. I figured more stuff might come up. The cards were full of descriptions of intense love and admiration and promises of massages. I couldn’t believe my wife was smitten with this guy by the thihgs she said in those cards I was sure they were having sex or close to it. Get this, the cards were NOT to the friend I knew about #1 they were to the guy at work she mentioned was training her. (I must add that part of our good sex life which had been strong up to this point involed her whispering fantasies about sex with others iincluding the guy the cards were too) 2 months larter I find a hunting hat and BD card hidden in the bathroom. The card was one of those love dreams which you profess intense longing and yearn for the day we make love. Now I am dying. I know exactly who the card is for cause I been stimulating her to talk about borh #1 and #2 for last 2 months while I wait.She says she doesn’t talk to #1 that much anymore because he was trying to com
come on to her. And as for #2 she says she admires his knowledge of the systems at work and his smooth temperment. Other days when drinking she would say he was country music handsome and she liked the way he treats his wife like a queen. when I confronted her with the cards and stuff I had discovered she acted like “He’s just my boy” and this is just puppy love. All we did was kiss in his truck at lunch. so now she wants me to deal with it and let them be just friends. I don’t know about this only kissing stuff, when I get started kissing and attractive woman it will often progress. Should I believe that it was only kissing?

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how long would you have to have chlamydia tracomatis for it to cause a urethral stricture?

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me and my boyfriend have both been treated for Chlamydia on Friday and we have been trying to conceive a baby and we did not have any luck before we found out we had it and the nurse also told us that it can make the chances harder while you have it! but we should have a better chance after treated, After treated how long does it take to go away and will I have a good chance of conceiving a baby next month? Should I get my boyfriend’s sperm tested? I do not have pelvic inflammatory disease thank God.

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I first found out I had Chlamydia not long after we got married and got treated for it. She was overseas at the time so I told her to get checked and fixed, she told me she did.

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A friend tested positve for cocaine and did not use. He recently received a shot of Rocephin and liquid form of Zithromax for possible Chlamydia symptoms. He is wondering if this could provide a false-positive reading for cocaine.

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me & my boyfriend known each other since we were little. We’re both 17 now & we’ve had safe sex before & still are. Can I still get an STD, Chlamydia etc. even if we both started out as vrigins & we’re only true to each other?
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So I had sex with someone on October 21st, he told me he was clean but his ex told me she got chlamydia from him. She said he cheated on me with her and she got it. She told me to go to the dr but I never did. I never felt any symptoms from it either. We used a condom but he did go in once before he put it on but only for like 2 seconds if that. Is it possible I could have had it this whole time and not known since I didn’t have any symptoms whatsoever?
I waited this long because I just forgot about it, but reading other peoples posts made me think about it so I figured I’d ask. I am turning 18 in a few days so I’m gonna wait until then to go get check because I don’t want my mom to know about it, she doesn’t even know I slept with the guy. And I have had sex since then but with a condom.

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